Fortunately, there aren't a ton of rules to follow
This is by no means definitive (we might have missed a website or two), but for the most part these are our favorite, tried-and-true sites for finding everything from a classic bridesmaid dress to something completely unique
Get ready for chunky, strappy heels, clogs, jellies, and those super cute platform sandals that have one huge strap across the top in a bright solid color
[just to add to the comment about the style of the shoe being key, even within the sub-category of penny loafer] Not to make you feel old, indeed were all headed down the same path but my father, now in his 80s, has also never worn a pair of jeans and I appreciate the associations you have with them
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