As for shoes, they should be chosen to complement the dress, while still being comfortable enough to dance in
I have used a press stud under the apex of the "V" to attach it to the top of the dress
The following clothing is prohibited in the Club House: jeans and other denim apparel, leisurewear of any type, Capri, and cargo pants, rompers, shorts, leggings, T-shirts, sportswear and bare midriff tops, mini-skirts, athletic clothing, beach or thong sandals, and sneakers or other athletic shoes
Black, navy, or grey are foolproof, but earthy tones like rust or olive green offer a nod to the season
You might want to try them on only when you narrow your choices down as its hard to get in and out of gowns with heels on